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Is fear holding you back from achieving your dreams? Do you hesitate when you have the chance to move forward in life because you are paralysed by your own imagination - thinking of all the terrible things that could happen? Find out how to eliminate fear with four simple questions!


Is fear holding you back from achieving your dreams? Do you hesitate when you have the chance to move forward in life because you are paralysed by your own imagination - thinking of all the terrible things that could happen?


Have you ever been in a situation where you were prepared for the worst to happen? Your mind ran wild with terrible imaginings and you were literally paralysed by fear! Soon the feared event happened! Yet when you eventually passed through the actual experience you realised that the fear you had was much worse than the actual event!


Most of us have had such experiences.


On the other hand have you ever feared the worst and it didn't happen?


In both the above situations you probably worked yourself into a frenzy in anticipation of this terrible thing that was about to happen only to find out later that your fears were unfounded. Your fears were worse than the eventual experience.


"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself" Franklin D. Roosevelt 1933.


So what is fear and how do we defeat it?


Fear is the result of negative mental programming. Fear enters your mind when your automatic thinking is negative. It rears its ugly head when you find yourself out of your comfort zone! It is the unknown outcome that produces fear in any situation and the collection of many thoughts that direct your consciousness to the worst possible scenario.


Fear is false!


The truth is that most of your fears never actually happen! Those fears that do happen are never as bad you have anticipated.


The key to conquering fear lies in your thinking and questioning. In future when you are confronted with a fear you should stop for a moment and take a very deep breath. Breathing deeply relaxes the body and removes the tension that the fear is creating in your body. Then look closely at the way you have just been thinking. You will find that your mind was filled with the worst possible images connected to your fear.


Reverse the thoughts! Begin by questioning the fear. Use the following four questions to paralyse the fear!


1. Is your feared based in reality?


2. If this fear were to come to pass and be manifested in your life would the experience really be as bad as you are imagining it would be?


3. Is it possible that you may actually gain something from experiencing the feared event?


This last question may sound like a strange thing to ask yourself but there is a two-fold reason for asking it. Firstly Cheap Tomas Hertl Hoodie , any thought in a different direction breaks the runaway train of negative fearful thought! Secondly Cheap Martin Jones Hoodie , it forces you to look at the fear from a different perspective and neutralizes its power.


4. Is it possible that if I change my thinking now I can actually create what I want instead of being fearful?


When we change how we think we change how we act. A great majority of people who experience the things that they have feared for a long time have actually brought about the feared event themselves because they have constantly focused on their fears. By focusing on your fears you tend to act in ways that are connected to the fears and thus you unconsciously create the feared event. An example would be a person who fears they will lose their partner. In order to keep the person they will try to control everything they do Cheap Joonas Donskoi Hoodie , constantly question their actions and scrutinize their every move in order to ensure they never leave them. I am sure you can see that this behaviour will actually push the person away. Yet to them they are ensuring they keep the person! Everyone of us acts in this way everyday - we outwardly attract our fears through our actions due to our focus.


Likewise Cheap Joe Pavelski Hoodie , when we hold in mind the expectation that we will receive what we want to receive our thinking affects our actions and we find ourselves attracting the very things we want.


So to avoid attracting situations and people that will help you manifest your own fears constantly ask yourself the four fear-busting questions above. You will soon find that your fears are only shadows with no real substance and you will begin to move forward in the direction you want.

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